There are times when you think that the world has not met your expectations, times when you judge the world and everyone around you.
But what happens when the world judges you? Do you need validation from others to get through your day? Do you wait for someone to notice your haircut, your new watch or your fast car?
Well, I have news for you, you don’t need validation form anyone but yourself. You need to evaluate your goals, your dreams, your accomplishments and see how and where they align. You need to validate you.
You need to tend to your own needs and make sure you follow up, do the work and make it happen, rather than wait for your loved ones, or friends to think about getting it done for you. When you really want something done in your life, you need to get up (G.O.Y.A. = get off your assets) and get it done.
Whatever the outcome of your efforts are, they are yours, good or bad. But when you really give it your all and fail, if you did not get the results you wanted, know that it just was not time.
But when you do make continuous strides toward the end goal, you eventually get it. Just be aware not to give up too soon, sometimes, it is that one extra push that makes it over the hurdle. And you have the power to do it if you have the desire make it.
And when you do make it, you do not need validation, just some friends for the celebration!
Until next time.
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“Ninety-nine percent of all failures come from people who have a habit of making excuses.” – George Washington Carver |