Why me? Why is my life so hard? Why does this always happen to me?
Do you know of anyone who is a victim in their own life? Someone who continuously complains and asks “why me” all of the time? Odds are, you probably do. In fact, odds are, there are at least moments in your own life where you allow yourself to be a victim.
Not every situation in our lives is perfect. Many of them are down right painful. But harping on the negative things that happen in our lives does nothing but bring more negativity to us. We are each magnets. Whatever we focus on we become charged with and we attract more of that into our lives.
No matter what happens, do not allow yourself to continue to focus on the bad things that occur in your life. Instead look for the positive. There is always something positive, even if it is simply a lesson to be learned from a bad situation.
The beauty of our lives is that we are not victims. We always have a choice. We are in charge of our own lives. We always can decide what we want to put our energies toward.
Stop giving your power to other people, situations, and circumstances. You are in charge of your own life.
Live Life,
Bert Oliva
